Where I'm at now...

Right now I am attempting to process my trip and everything it entailed: highs and lows. I am trying to wrap my head around the drought and famine I witnessed firsthand. I am trying to ground myself here in Toronto and write a new speech while scratching my head on what to do to help east Africans.

The trip, overall, was incredible. I had the chance to sit down with a Maasai warrior, on many occasions, and ask any questions I desired... and receive honest, proud answers in return. I walked into the trip petrified to facilitate with Sally, because frankly, she's a legend at FTC, and now I can say I wouldn't have had it any other way. I got the opportunity to facilitate any module I wanted to, or sit back and take notes as she facilitated ones I was too scared to. And in the end, I was able to learn and gain skills I may not have had I facilitated with someone else. But most importantly, I had the chance to see twenty-nine youth transform over the course of three weeks. I couldn't be more proud of the young people I traveled with, or more excited about their action plans and seeing how they will change the world.

However, at some point, we all need to come back to reality. While in Kenya, my reality was drought, famine, inequality... Here in Toronto, my reality is speech writing, We Day prep, and settling in to my new home. That being said, although our realities here in North America are very different than the realities in East Africa, it doesn't mean we can't work it into our realities. The most important thing we can each do, is educate us. If you take anything from these past few entries, I want it to be this article... Please take ten minutes and read last week's Global Voices in regards to the crisis in East Africa. Our brothers and sisters around the world are suffering, and we need to know the truth.

Now it's off to work on my own action plan... Kwa heri!

Kenya: Week Two and Three

Jambo! Habari ya hasabuhi? (Hello! How is your morning?)
Mzuri sana, nawawa? (Very Good, and you?)

Week two in the beautiful Maasai Mara of Kenya. During this week we had the usual adventures of the build site, chances to play with the kids, and visits to our Me to We Duka ("store") as well as other Me to We projects and experiences.

My biggest highlight from the second week in Kenya was definitely the Duka day. We got up early and traveled to our leadership center which houses our Duka. While there, we were able to purchase Me to We Artisan items. I got various gifts for my family as well as a couple things for myself. I got myself a "warrior package" which includes a shuka (to always remember Peter), a warrior bracelet that has the Maasai symbol (to always remember the Maasai), and a rungu because of its significance with leadership. The Duka had beautiful items like Maasai wedding necklaces and jewelry, as well as items like congos and Me to Bee honey. After we finished our adventure in the Duka we headed out to visit our tree nursery and get weapons training by Peter. We each got the chance to learn how to throw a conga which was pretty exciting! Finally, we ended the day at a tour of the Baraka Health Clinic and with a talk from Robin. It felt so good to see Robin again and hear her story all over. She truly is an inspiration to me and I feel so privileged to be able to call her a friend because she is just a very strong, motivated, and determined woman.

The week also consisted of various days for our participants to play with the kids after school. It was refreshing to watch them let loose and play different childhood games. It is incredible how easily kids can teach you games with such a language barrier... goes to show a little something we can learn from kids.

The last part of this week that I'll touch on was our "Community Day". The night before community day, we handed out family profiles to groups of participants. These profiles told them their family name, size, who the members were (ex. 1 mama, 1 baba, 4 kids, grandparent, etc), their assets (ex. goats, cows, maize), and their expenses for the week (ex. kids need their head shaved, medicine for sick family member, fixing a roof, school book, etc). We then read them out the average prices of these expenses and had them subtract theirs from the "average" $500 schillings ($5 US) a Kenyan family will have to spend a week. Their task was to bring that much money to the market the next day. The next day, we woke up the boys at dawn (about 6 a.m.) as the mamas for the day and they had to go fetch water. Once they returned, we had them doing everyone's laundry, cleaning the tents, doing the dishes... all the tasks a mama would do in the morning. While they were doing that, we woke up the girls and they were the "boys" for the day. They spent their morning being served breakfast and having "school" and Swahili lessons with Peter. The breakfast was a traditional Kenyan breakfast - Ugi, which is like a cream of wheat porridge. We then headed out to Mulot Market where the participants took the limited money they had (some had $80 schillings, some had $300 schillings - aka 80 US cents and $3 US) and bought the food they needed for the week for their family. When we returned to Osenetoi, we had a traditional Kenyan dinner of Ugali (ground up maize mixed with water to make a solid consistency) and cabbage.

One challenge I found with community day was dinner... Before we ate, Sally addressed the group and reminded us of the drought and famine happening in eastern Africa. She said, "you may not all like this meal and that's okay, but we are asking that you take a little bit to try then come up for more if you like it... we want to make sure we are doing our part by not wasting food". Everyone agreed... as we are eating our dinner, we see one of our participants walk up and throw out an entire plate of cabbage. I started to tear up and Sally was visibly angry as well. I stood up and addressed our frustration and disappointment to the group (without singling out the participant). We reminded them of the current situation and that this drought and famine were affecting people on the other side of the fence from us. It was just really hard for me that some of the youth didn't seem to care/understand (not sure which one since we addressed it so much) about the local issues affecting the community. It was definitely a struggle for me all trip.

Finally, part of community day was a visit to Kisaruni, Free The Children's first all girl high school in Kenya! The facilities were beautiful and it was so wonderful to hear the teachers talk about the students' commitment to their education. The girls would come for a full day with limited breaks and study ten subjects! As soon as you walk into the main building, you see pictures of all the girls that have won FTC scholarships to attend Kisaruni - it was incredible.

Week Three:

The end of the trip was packed with more leadership skills, lots of action planning, and safari day!

The safari was a long, but beautiful, day. We woke up at 5 a.m. so we could be awake with the animals, had a small breakfast, and were in the lorry ready to go. I can honestly say, if I don't sit in a lorry for a long time, I'll be very happy :) man is that thing bumpy! Anyways, we traveled for a few hours until we reached the game reserve and were greeted by lots of zebras and gazelles! Throughout the course of the day, we saw zebras, gazelles, buffaloes, water buffaloes, giraffes, monkeys, and various birds. Unfortunately, the lions and elephants must have been asleep that day because they were MIA. For me, I was happy with the zebras... Anyone that knows me knows that as a kid I wanted to be a zookeeper so I could play with zebras all day. It was beautiful and exhilarating to see these animals in their natural habitat.

We ended the trip with a few days of action planning. We introduced the idea of "Passion + Issue = Change" to encourage them to think of ways they could do what they love and raise awareness/money for various causes. At the end of the week, the group had incredible plans! Some included sports tournaments to raise money for sports equipment to be sent to communities in Kenya, water walks to raise money for clean water, and giving presentations at their schools to raise awareness of global issues. The passions ranged from skateboarding to soccer to public speaking; the issues ranged from clean water to sex trafficking to animal rights... Action planning is my favorite part of any academy/trip/workshop because it is the tangible part that gives youth the confidence to know they can actually do something about these issues. It reminds me why I do my job day in and day out.

Kenya: Week One

Jambo!

As you know, on July 21 I headed to the Toronto City airport to meet the first group of youth for our Me to We trip to Kenya. We then travelled to Montreal to meet another group before heading to Nairobi! From the second I arrived at the airport, all I could think was "Wow, two years ago I was trying to fundraise to go on a Me to We trip to Kenya... now I am facilitating one", it was exciting!

The first couple of days consisted on lots of traveling. We stayed at a place just outside of Nairobi for the night, and were on the road early to head to Osenetoi. On the way, we stopped at a giraffe sanctuary to learn about the beautiful animals. While there, you are allowed to feed the giraffes... which resulted in everyone (including myself) kissing a giraffe! I was speaking with some of the people that worked there and when I mentioned that I worked for Free The Children their eyes lit up. They engaged me in conversation to tell me how incredible the work we do at FTC is and how much they appreciate it. It was so great to hear that.

After the sanctuary we continued on to Osenetoi and stopped at the Great Rift Valley for some lunch. It was a breath-taking view and while we were eating, another Me to We facilitator (and a FAM for Change facilitator) stopped by with his group! I was surprised to see Steve but then Sally (my co-facilitator) said it is very common to run into the other groups while in-country.

Once we got to our campsite, we went over camp etiquette and told the group a bit about the drought and famine that are happening in Kenya. We agreed to a clean plate policy so we could do our part in not wasting food while we were there - the kids agreed to it which was really inspiring to see. We spent each morning of that week at the buildsite working on two classrooms for the youth of Osenetoi. The group was really excited to be building and got so much accomplished!

The highlight of the week for many people was when we went on a water walk with Mama Purity and Mama Rose. We walked with them until we reached a borehole which was filled with water that looked more like chocolate milk. It hit me when Mama Purity and Mama Rose walked down the side, knelt down, and started filling jerry cans... that these families drink, cook, and bathe with this water. I watched as the Mamas filled jerry can after jerry can then took a long rope and wrapped it around each can. Finally, the called over youth one by one, and slowly put the strap around the youth's forehead. Suddenly 20 litres of Osenetoi's water problem was on each person's back. While walking, Mama Purity informed Sally and I that during the worst times of the drought, they sometimes have to walk for four days with their cattle to find water. This broke my heart because clean water is something that every person should have access to.

Another highlight of the week for many participants and myself was beading with Mama Leah. This was special to me because Mama Leah is Robin's Mama and I've wanted to meet her ever since reading "My Maasai Life" last year. We all sat in small groups and Mama Leah taught us how to bead through the leather backing. We made circular patterns, but the Mamas make all sorts of things from bracelets and necklaces to belts and clutches. The work is incredibly beautiful... Mama Leah told us a bit about the women's group she is a part of with Me to We. She explained how they make however many necklaces and other Artisan pieces that they have time for, then Me to We will pay them for it. They also participate in merry-go-rounds where the women each pay a certain amount of "dues" and the Mamas rotate as to who gets the money at the end of the month for their family. It was incredible to see how these community members work together to take care of each other.

If you ask me... Americans could learn a lot from the Maasai community.

Tukopamoja ("We are together")!

Jambo rafikis! Habari yako? Hello friends! How are you?

As you may know, I have just returned from three weeks in the Maasai Mara of Kenya. My co-facilitator, Sally, and I led twenty-nine youth on a trip filled with school-building, community relationships, and leadership skills. Our "typical" day looked like this:

8:00 a.m. - Wake up
8:30 a.m. - Breakfast
9:00 a.m. - Buildsite
12:00 p.m. - Free time
1:00 p.m. - Lunch
2:30 p.m. - Leadership activities and/or games
6:30 p.m. - Dinner
7:30 p.m. - Leadership activities and/or games

Some days we visited other communities and Free The Children projects, which would switch up our daily routine a bit. Some highlights include: visiting Kisaruni and seeing Free The Children projects, conversations with Peter about the Maasai culture, and seeing youth transform over the course of three weeks. Some challenges include: not being as fluent in Swahili as I wanted to be, comments or conversations from people that were hard to comprehend, and not packing warm enough clothes (who would have thought Kenya would be cold?).

These next few entries will be filled with stories, pictures, and statistics from Kenya, specifically the community of Osenetoi. Enjoy :)

Cheers,
Bria

"It's not a question of 'Can we?' but 'Will we?"

I returned this weekend from spending a week with 63 incredible young people, all ready to change the world... I was lucky enough to be a facilitator at Me to We's Take Action Academy! The week was filled with leadership and social justice workshops, incredible guest speakers, and a lot of fun with the kids.

The Academy was held at our Me to We Leadership Centre in Bethany, Ontario. It's ten acres of green forest with a horse farm in the backyard, it's beautiful. When you walk into The Spark Hall, there are break out rooms (all named after a country we work in) and Gratitude Hall (where we eat all our meals). In Gratitude Hall, there are two signs - "Take what you need" and "Eat what you take". After each meal, we weigh our waste and make goals to bring down the amount of food we waste during meals. Our breakout rooms are where we met with our groups and had workshops. At the end of each day, we would go around the circle and say our "Roses (favorite part of the day) and Thorns (worst part of the day)". My favorite was when every kid's rose was Jonathan's speech... it was so incredible to hear 20 kids say he had such a huge impact on their life given what he's done for my life. Another thing we did many nights was "Snaps". We had a "Snaps" wall where kids could write something for each other if they want to whether it's around something nice they did for someone, a way that they really helped out in a workshop, etc... just snaps :)

Three highlights would have to be the Hunger Dinner and Jonathan's speech, Shelley's speech about HIV/AIDs, and the final night.

At the Hunger dinner, we split the kids into three groups - high income, middle income, and lower income. The numbers were based off of actual percentages (so there were only 8 of 63 kids in the upper class) and they were given food rations to go along with their class. The upper class got a four course meal and fine dining service, the middle class had rice and beans, while the lower class had a cup of beans and minimal water. Those of us that were at Academy for the first time didn't know what to expect... At first the kids were being kids and taunting each other, then once the lower class saw us scraping the upper class leftover food into our compost bin they freaked out. All of a sudden the lower class charged at the upper class, grabbing any food and drinks they could. I honestly thought it was going to be bad, I thought we would be making a hospital run, it was scary. This kind of behavior continued until we ended the dinner (it lasted about an hour and a half). We then went outside and had a debrief, as well as one in our breakout groups. Many of the kids were very affected by it... One girl in the upper class was in tears during dinner because she couldn't handle that she was getting so much and her friends were getting nothing. It was intense. Some statistics Jonathan shared with us after:
-There is enough food produced in our world that if we split it evenly among the ~7 billion people in the world... we could feed everyone three times over.
-1/4 of the top 1% of people in the United States own half of the wealth in the US.
-There are 40-50 million hungry people in the United States.
-In the United States, we produce enough food to feed the population TEN times over.

The next day Shelley gave an incredible talk about HIV/AIDs. We learned that HIV is 100% preventable and with a simple $20 a pregnant woman can receive a shot that would prevent HIV from affecting her baby (40% of children with HIV get it from their mother). During her talk, she kept mentioning that a famous quote related to this topic was, "It's not a question of 'can we?' but 'will we?"... and the kids loved that! To sum up Shelley's talk, here are some fascinating facts:
-33 million people affected by HIV/AIDs globally.
-2.7 million people will become affected this year.
-In the year 2000, drug companies made a profit of $100 billion after investing only $21 billion into AIDs research.
-Of the 2 million children living with HIV, 90% are in sub-Saharan Africa.

My final favorite time was the last night... We had our "Action dinner" where all the youth shared their action plans and celebrated. Afterwards, we had a talent show and dance. One of the participants in my group is a very shy girl, and that night she stood in front of her peers to sing Miley Cyrus' "The Climb". When she said how nervous she was, 60+ people stood up cheering "You can do it!!" and encouraged her. She sang through the second chorus, stopped, and was bear hugged by every youth in the room... It was incredible. After that, she informed Jennie and I that she was always the quiet girl in school but she just feels comfortable at Academy and she was so proud of herself. It was magical.

Needless to say... Academy rejuvenated my heart and reminded me why I do my job. Now this week will consist of finishing my prep for Kenya, packing, moving to a new house, and heading to the Massai Mara on Thursday! I am extremely excited for this adventure and to meet 29 new, amazing, young people eager to change the world.

Chat with y'all in August!
Bria

"Dear Me... You are going to Kenya!"

I spent last week in beautiful Bethany Hills, Ontario at our Me to We Leadership Centre for trips training. I was in a building with 40+ incredible, inspiring, and experienced peers and facilitators. I spent three days picking brains, gaining knowledge, and being challenged. The reality has smacked me in the face that in less than two months I will be traveling to a country I have never visited, facilitating with a person I have never met, and be responsible for the lives of 29 young people... Holy moly! I have learned what to do in extreme cases (life or death scenarios), how to deal with withdrawn youth, what to do if my co-facilitator falls ill or we don’t get along, etc.

During this training, I have tried really hard to challenge myself. Instead of just copying notes and participating in modules, I have tried to mentally put myself into the situations. How would I debrief that module? What would I do if I received a lot of push back from a kid? How would I keep calm if a participant is seriously injured or worse? What would I do if I found participants getting... well, touchy? All these questions flew through my head as I realized I couldn’t answer them. I realized I need self reflection. So that’s what I’m going to do. I am giving myself a set amount of time (not yet decided how long or when) which I will use to analyze myself. To pick apart my own brain... What are my strengths and weaknesses as a facilitator? What makes me tick? How do I handle stress? These are just a few of the key things I need to learn about myself, and be comfortable with, before I can facilitate with another person and expect them to be comfortable with me.

So here’s to new adventures and self reflection.

Cheers!
Bria

Oh and PS – HAMZA SURPRISED US ON DAY TWO... HE’S BACK! No big deal or anything :D

Dare To Dream

Last Friday I was given the opportunity to give an outreach speech to a community in Dunnville, Ontario that are part of the Dream program. Dream (designing routes to education and mentorship) is a mentoring organization that focuses on bettering the community through youth by providing them with academic, social, and financial support for secondary education. I was really excited to visit this community because it reminded me a lot of FAM for Change. At FAM, we focus on empowering youth from Brockton High School to make a difference in their own lives, make a difference in their community, and make a difference in the world. We do this by helping them with their school work, participating in campaigns like Halloween for Hunger, and teaching them about various worldly issues. At Dream, they also do these things through global literacy programs and events completely run by the youth.

This speech was a great opportunity for me in different ways. First, I was able to see an existing mentoring organization right here in Ontario, and one similar to FAM. It made me so happy (much like “Strip the Streets” did) to be able to see young people mentoring each other and putting on their own events. Secondly, I was able to speak to my own experiences with mentoring and virtually (via pictures) introduce the community of Dunnville to my mentor, Jonathan, and my mentees, Nichole and Angel. It gave me a great sense of pride to be able to express how important mentorship is and to see the pride in the kids’ faces when I asked, “who here has mentored someone?”

Every day this job presents new challenges. Every day this job presents new goals. Every day presents new dreams. And every day this job presents new feelings of accomplishment... Friday was one of those days.

Cheers!
Bria